Do you ever feel that the love you're giving a spouse or a friend is going into a black hole, never to be returned? If this is happening to you, you need to understand what's going on and make changes before your very life is sucked dry out of you.

I had this happen to me in my first marriage. It was hell.

Moreover, when you start thinking progress is being made in this toxic relationship, they will invariably search for another reason to fall apart and drag you back down with them. Or rant and rail, bombarding you with aggressive behaviout to wear you down. That's the 'Hecate' treatment. Or just 'go icy-silent', passive-aggressive, 'freezing you out'. That's the 'Lilith' treatment.

Your success bothers them - REALLY bothers them. They want you to be as miserable as them. Satan turned our whole culture to be like this. It's called 'woke-ism', an ugly fruit of postmodernism. And it's terribly destructive.

They thrive when they are victimised and 'love' when the people they love pity them. But in so doing they stunt their own emotional and spiritual growth.

This is, consciously or unconsciously, a control device. But it's a choice nevertheless and they are accountable.

They're the sort of people who want results fast but don't put in the work. They are parasites. When they see you putting in the work, it makes them so uncomfortable that they feel the need to bring you back down to their level again. But it's precisely in the discomfort they feel that the potential for their deliverance resides. They're like a weight that keeps getting heavier. It's a vicious cycle. And if children are in the middle of this, they suffer too, because no matter how much they try to please, it's never enough.

At some point you have to put your foot down. You have to be firm and say 'no more'!

After seven years of patiently enduring this hell until it made me ill, Father put an end to it because I did not dare to do what needed doing...which I mistakenly thought would have been unloving and therefore unchristian.

This psychopathic, narcissistic behaviour is passed down generationally and HAS to be broken to end it. Demonic entities lie behind it. The indecisive, deluded hippie generation is now in power and making a mess of everything. Imagine what will happen when the 'woke' generation gets into power. We're seeing the first signs of it already. And it was prophesied as long ago as 2,000 years. The root of all of this is no mystery - LAWLESSNESS (2 Thess.2:8-9; cp. Heb.10:17; 2 Pet.2:7-8; 3:17).

Both men and women are to blame for failing in their divinely-assigned rôles, and not being content with what Father-Yahweh ordained and gave. Instead they each tried 'doing it MY way'. The disaster that followed is all around us now - macho men and feministic women trying to lord it over each other with children out of control.

There is only one way out of this mess, the Gospel Way. Unfortunately, most will not choose it. Those who do are the Remnant and will have to separate out before the wrath of an offended Elohim (God) must spill out over humanity for its rebelliousness.

The Last Exodus has already begun and New Year 2025 (30 March 2025) commences the next phase of it, which is why the world is in turmoil as demonic agendas clash with Yahweh's. Are you prepared?

Separations can be very painful but are sometimes necessary...when grace has been exhausted. We are to patiently wait, doing all we can, until Yahweh announces that time, and intervenes...as He will. Don't let the psychopaths and narcissists overwhelm you - continue to exercise patience and love but create such distance as you need for your own well-being. Don't assume Father's rôle, you will fail at it because human judgment of the kind of intricacy and on the kind of scale that is needed to do a clean job is fundamentally flawed. But be wise. Be ready. Learn the lessons of Passover this year and be prepared to practically apply them. www.nccg.org/pesach.html Be ready.

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